Do You Wanna Touch?

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Be confident in the skin you are in, because that is the only body you will ever have, the only place that will ever be solely yours. Even if you will never be as skinny as those super models, or the beauty who makes everyone stare, you can be beautiful in your own way. And you have to accept this, and own it.’

-Deejae Harper-

 

Going solo, flicking the bean, teasing the kitty, me time, whatever you call it, there’s no reason to feel guilty about it, as it’s completely and utterly normal. Trust me.

In my opinion, I feel women aren’t encouraged to celebrate their natural sexual cravings or indulge in the exploration of their blossoming bodies. As a woman, the topic of female masturbation and touching ‘down there’ had always been seen as embarrassing and somewhat a taboo subject within society, and I think it’s time to change that. If men can talk freely about a little bit of self-loving, then why can’t we? Talking with friends, even as a twenty-something year old,  I found that girls find it weird and shameful to explore themselves and even consider discovering what brings them to climax, almost dirty…and not in the good way.

Female masturbation isn’t talked about quite as much as male masturbation, in fact, only 60% of women admit to masturbating, When questioning why it’s so shameful to admit that when alone you indulge in a little sexual healing, the answers consisted of everything from fear of being judged about not getting sexual satisfaction from their partner to simply that they’re freaks who can’t get a man.

Well here’s a newsflash, masturbation is something to be proud of; something that’s not only bloody marvellous, but amazing for your mental and physical health, and also for your sex life.

How it benefits your health

·         Masturbation provides protection from cervical infections and also helps to relieve urinary tract infections. This is because when women masturbate, the orgasm opens the cervix which stretches and draws the lubricant within the cervix, causing a rise in acidity within the cervical fluid. This increases friendly bacteria and allows more fluid to move from the cervix into the vagina, and flushes out unfriendly organisms that can cause infections.

·         Masturbation can naturally fight insomnia through hormonal and tension release. Dopamine, the “feel-good” hormone, is increased during the anticipation of a sexual climax; so after climax, the calming hormones oxytocin and endorphins are released, making us feel the warm, relaxed and thus helping us to drift off to sleep.

·         Masturbation is associated with improved cardiovascular health and lower risk of type-2 diabetes.

·         Orgasm increases pelvic floor strength, which strengthens the entire region, as well as your sexual satisfaction.

 How it benefits your mental health

·         Masturbation helps let go of depressive emotions. As we become aroused, the hormone levels of dopamine and epinephrine soar in our bodies, which are both mood-boosters.

·         Through this dopamine and epinephrine release into our bodies, it also reduces our stress levels.

·         When we know, love, and nurture ourselves on emotional and physical levels, we gain confidence and grow through self-awareness. Being able to recognize, articulate, and experience what brings pleasure is a powerful step toward fulfilment.

·         Masturbation can strengthen the sexual relationship with a partner. Allowing someone to witness you masturbate will not only build sexual confidence with each another, but you’ll be able to guide and teach your partner about what feels good for you, which will inevitably make him feel good knowing he’s doing it right.

Of course the traditional approach of climaxing with your fingers is very common and effective, but with sex toys they’re effortless, modern and will blow your naughty little mind.  Yep, these gorgeous, buzzing devices are the perfect tool for female masturbation and in discovering what feels fantastic. You can use a toy for vaginal penetration or clitoral stimulation, or both at the same time; whatever you like, whatever you want; it’s time to start doing it.

So, turn up the heat, ladies and head for the bedroom. Let’s start embracing our sexual cravings and start to spoil our body rotten with some well-deserved trembles and treats.

The Blushing Bunny

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After an hour in traffic, Jack was relieved to finally make it to the front door of his house. It had been a stressful day and one that wasn’t helped any by the journey home. Diane’s car was already in the driveway, she had probably been home for half an hour already so he hoped that she had already made a start on dinner. As he turned the key and stepped inside, he was a little disappointed to not be met by the sweet smell of Diane’s cooking. More unusual however was that the house was quiet.

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Life & Times of Transsexual Escort Jasmine la Perra

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Talking Robot Sex Dolls. But, Why?

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There are those sex dolls that are your pretty basic blow up ones commonly used as joke additions on stag do’s where you’ll find the stag tied to a lamp post in Prague wearing a tutu holding a doll for warmth. Then there are better quality dolls actually used for sexual gratification, though there design often confuses me. Genitals are too conveniently placed; I believe this is making men more and more lazy with unrealistic expectations of how a real woman should position herself (or re-arrange her anatomy it seems).

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Cambridge Town Rejoices in BDSM

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angry-old-manIt’s like an episode of Eastenders. First there was outrage when the ‘relationship advice’ group in a Cambridge town hall was revealed to be a weekly bondage class, then the town hall leaders banned it, then that caused outrage, now the local fetish shop in the town claims to be raking it in from all the local fetishists who have, apparently, been hiding away feeling ashamed of themselves this whole time! Ok, maybe not like Eastenders. But there is definitely a soap opera theme about this whole thing.

It seems as though the revelation of the bondage classes has been a good thing. Even though the attendees are missing out on classes (though I bet my leather neck collar, they’ve re-grouped at another location), this whole scenario has opened the floodgates to fetish freedom. Where have all the fetish shoppers come from, that the local fetish shop

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Cherry Belle Latex

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Red, Cherries, Sophistication, Feminine, Red! There is nothing not to love about Cherry Belle! Sophisticated fashion has taking a truly saucy turn. This is latex clothing for the stylish, quirky, sophisticated woman who’s looking to turn the heat up a bit!

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There’s something about Halloween… 30% Off!

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It’s that time of year again! When good girls go bad and boys love it. It’s a funny thing to lose your inhibitions for a night dressed as ghouls and ghosts with fake blood running down a fake gash on your head and make-up designed to make you look like death hath come alive and still stay sexy. There is an underlying fetish/alternative theme that runs beneath the overlying ‘fancy dress party’ idea, and we love it.

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For one night of the year, fetish and alternative partying is not niche. It is not the select few who are taking part, it’s global. Even the girliest girl who’s into daisies and Olly Murs will, for one night, turn into a sexy, gothic-y, dominatrix-y, minx all in the name of Halloween. So we embrace it and encourage it. We are offering 30% off any item in the Honour Halloween category from now until Halloween. So all you ladies who turn into hot, cat-woman, latex-y knock outs are well catered for. Browse the range and find varieties ranging from skeleton bodies, sexy police woman, high school zombie and hot witchesladies-sexy-skeleton-costume and enjoy partying in an alternative setting, that so many appreciate on any Friday night!

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Bondage for Beginners, Communication is Key!

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Let me rephrase. Communication before hand is key. Because once you’re gagged, you’re gagged. If you’ve never been tied up or tied someone else up before, you can’t be sure how you’ll feel about it until you’re actually in a vulnerable position or putting someone else in one. Where you may like the idea of damsel in distress, when your hands are actually tied and you
can’t free them to scratch your nose or other tickly bits, you might not feel like playing a role. You might decide you don’t like Woman Tied and Blind-foldednot being in charge of your body and you’ll suddenly feel like getting dressed and watching the Eastenders omnibus instead. It’s not for everyone. But it definitely works for some.

With thousands of people now regularly enjoying the wonderful world of soft bondage (and just as many enjoying the world of the harder version), it is an exciting time for many couples who no longer have to feel embarrassed or shy about bringing up the subject.

Many of us fantasies being tied up or playing the opposite role and working our way on to harder forms of bondage. But our fantasies are happening in the perfect world of our minds. For when there’s another person involved, as much as the role play itself suggests otherwise; considerations must be made.

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Ban on Sex Toys in Alabama

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The Supreme Court of Alabama banned sex toys in 2009. When I first heard that sex toys were banned in Alabama, I assumed it was an ancient ruling that no-one had bothered to change or look at. But the law was passed in 2009! What madness is this?

dildo picIn the great US of A, the land of the free and the home of the brave, there is a state that deprives its people of aided self satisfaction and kinky fun with their lovers. What is free and brave about this? It did make me wonder if there’s anything specific about the Alabam-ians that made the state think they shouldn’t use sex toys. Are they a bunch of horny buggers that need their sexual urges tightly controlled and limited? Are they worried the use of sex toys will turn people into lamp-post fetishists, wondering around town humping park benches and such.titty teasers

I don’t think banning sex toys will ever lead to whatever it is the state was attempting to
achieve. Often when something is banned or a nation of people are living under unreasonable laws and rules, rebellion occurs. I imagine the good old gun shack in pro-gun households with the guns piled on the floor and the racks now housing a stash of dildos, butt plugs, vibrators and nipple clamps. A big bearded dude makes a video with his face covered in a bondage hood, giving a tour of his cellar showing off his racks of sex toys shouting anti-American slurs. I imagine this and I smile.

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Bondage Class Banned from British Village Hall

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The trustees of a village hall in a sleepy town in Cambridge have banned a bondage class that was being run in a village hall where the running of scouts groups, women’s groups and bingo for retirees is hosted. The bondage class taught how bondage works and the safest way of taking part.

angry-old-manWhat on earth is wrong with that? The council are panicking as if this group are forcing the locals to attend or handing brochures to children as they leave school. All attendees were there voluntarily. And instead of trying out bondage fetish sex with disastrous and dangerous consequences, they were being taught how to enjoy it safely. Then they left the hall, went to their homes, closed their doors and tried it out. No orgies in the town centre, no parades or protests, no fetishly dressed locals prancing into bakeries or creeping up behind OAP’s at the bus stop and screaming in their ears. Like bondage fans all do.

I can’t see what the problem was. OK so they shouldn’t have called it a ‘relationship support group’, but actually that’s not a lie. If you really think about it. But if they used the word bondage the trustees would have looked it up in a dictionary, then re-read it, and then said no. Any group promoting the safety of anything gets my vote anyway. But it did get me thinking. How many people might have afetish couple problem with bondage classes being conducted in their local area? Is it a normal reaction to freak out? We at honour wouldn’t know. Bondage is part of our daily routine. We love it.

This is a message to all sleepy village, town hall type decision makers. Stop pretending you’re not into it. Let the people of your town express themselves damn it! Let them be fetish and free. Don’t make them feel ashamed of their desires. It is normal, it is creative, and it is great. Simples.